The teacher of tutor wears simple and plain parents and students are indifferent

Xiao Zhao is an English teacher. She has been working part-time for 15 years since her college days. In the past 15 years, the number of students she had brought had not come. However, a student who had taken him a few days ago had made her sad.

Xiao Zhao is currently teaching at a university affiliated school in Xi’an. In her 11 years of work, she has long-term part-time English tutoring, in addition to her teaching duties. Her monthly income is not bad. She was born in rural areas and has always been very simple in her life. She wears an ordinary dress.

At noon yesterday, the reporter saw Xiao Zhao in the 521 hospital in the southern suburbs. She was wearing a pink T-shirt and black jeans and wearing white shoes. Three days ago, perhaps because of this dress, there was a conflict between her and her parents.

At 1pm on April 15th, Xiao Zhaoru rushed to a district in the southern suburbs. This was the second time she had come to teach English for her students. Chaochao is a junior high school student in a key middle school. Xiao Zhao recalled that during the first class, Chaochao performed well and could be seen as a practical, studious child.

According to Xiao Zhao, when she was preparing for classes in the living room, the super-super mother looked at her and asked her if she was an English teacher in her job. Her face expressed a distrustful look. "She said that I was dressed in soil, not like a real teacher, but like a part-time student." Xiao Zhao was puzzled. "How can I ask the kids about your teaching, listen to your child's assessment, and dress up? Can't a teacher pass the exam?

After listening to Xiao Zhao’s words, Chaochao’s mother was unhappy. As a parent of a senior high school student, it is human nature to hurry to find a good tutor for a child. She was eager to find a teacher with rich teaching experience and mistakenly thought that Xiao Zhao was a good candidate. Chaochao’s mother expressed her dissatisfaction with Xiao Zhao at that time, saying that parents should not be so inclined when buying money. “I sell knowledge, not personality, not dignity. Parents and teachers should have respected each other. I am not a qualified teacher. I can see from the quality of teaching. As far as wearing a dress is totally my personal habit.” Xiao Zhao said .

Later, Xiao Zhao and Chaochao’s mother had an argument, and her cell phone was also thrown to the ground. "His mother hit me. I didn't fight back. At this time, I saw the child's eyes full of numbness and indifference. There was no meaning to discourage them. This made me very chilly." Xiao Zhao said, after a while, The tutor company rushed to take her to the hospital. After inspection, Xiao Zhao's body was not seriously affected, but only some minor injuries.

Compared with the physical injury, Xiao Zhao's heart is deeper. She believes that a 17-year-old boy should have a certain amount of judgment and his own views on things. Even if he sees someone who needs help on the road, or if he or she is strangling between strangers, he should stand up and reach out and help. Ultra-super, but indifferent.

expert's point

Parents should nurture children’s correct values

“Parents and teachers are all devoted to cultivating children. Perhaps because of a certain sentence during the conversation, the two parties misunderstood, and perhaps other reasons have intensified the contradictions between the two sides and led to disappointing consequences.” Shaanxi Province Mental Health Education Research Association President Song Xin said that teachers and parents shoulder the important task of cultivating children. Regardless of what causes contradictions, no matter who is right or wrong, they should not show up in front of children, and they should not abuse each other in the face of children. Fight.

If parents are only doubtful about their teaching ability because teachers are wearing shabby clothes, then such values ​​and judgment standards will have adverse effects on children and may cause a series of chain reactions. Today, society, schools, and parents should all reflect on whether the performance rankings and exams of famous universities are the only goals pursued by children. Song Xin believes that social education, school education, and family education should focus on cultivating children's emotional intelligence, courtesy, civility, and mental health, so that children can become comprehensive talents with excellent overall quality.

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